Single parent

1. In order to put myself in single parent' shoes, I travelled around doing activities with my daughter. It is not easy! Since my wife is working shift hours, so I got a lot of chances for that.

2. Going to bathroom is not easy! Either you hold until forever or you find a handicap toilet, which ever comes first.

3. Driving is very challenging! Especially if your kid has motion sickness. It is not easy to control the situation if she vomits while you drive.

4. Eating at fancy restaurant is a must! 2-year-old kid like to run around and lying flat on the floor. So, be very careful. Your wife might kill you bare-hands if she knows it happened.

The lists go on...

Aging defies time

1. Getting old is not fun. Regardless, it is happening to everyone.

2. Before, you can last longer in any physical activities; walking, running, hiking, window-shopping. Now, after 2 hours, or maybe less, you gasp and start to look for benches.

3. Part of your routine is looking for grey hairs. There will be a new one, always...

4. Healing process start to take sometimes, compare to before. Because of that, I hate to get injured and try to avoid it as much as possible.

5. I got few tips from the old-timers; Eat less, make sure it is nutritious food. You will be hungry, but you will still have the energy. And I think it is working for me.

Happy aging everyone!!!

Seorang Tua Separuh Abad

We had this conversation on the way back after lunch. The objective of the conversation was not that clear but we had it anyway.

A: Imagine that wife, kid-4-year-old and you are stranded in an island and you have only a small portion of food for 1 person. Who will eat that? Why?
B: not only that I knew the answer, I had been in that situation. Let me ask you, who it will be?
A: I will eat that food. Reason is, I will get the energy and I will use it to find more food for them and protect them from danger.
B: logically that what will happen, practically, happened to me before, the kid end up ate that food and I struggled to find more for them. Now, let us pray that this will never happen to you to find the answer but I think you can wipe that tears now.
A: owh, there was a small dust flew into the eyes!

Tulsa University Re-united

1. It was in 2011, since our last gathering. Today, we did it again for a good sake, friendship.

2. Some of us could not make it due to reasons; swimming??? Pfttt! Paternity leaves, accepted! lost of car keys??? Pfttt!!! And so forth. Regardless, we missed all of you.
3. One day, when I am rich, I am gonna buy a really big house with a proper yard and I am gonna throw the same reunion for convenience of us

Some lost kids with their marbles

1. Growing up older, I watch some close people suffer stroke. Depending on affected parts of the brain, they suffer different kind problems.

2. One of them is my own dad. Past history was he had high BP. He refused medications and did not control his diets. On top of that, he got mad easily and a couch-potato. Long back, he was a heavy smoker but he stopped when I was in primary school.
3. As for now, the damage is done. If I can describe, he is like a lost kid, looking for his lost marbles in darkness. He keeps looking but he does not know where to start. Most of the time, he just sits still in front of tv and seems so confuse.
4. I tried asking him before. What can you remember? Can you remember this, that and so forth. The idea is just to see inside his brain. What I can conclude is it is like an album, with a lot of un-arrange pictures. Some of the pictures are very blurred and some of them are very clear, but, all of them appear in the middle of nowhere with no connection. To make it worst, you only can see/summon any pictures with certain trigger only.
5. That is fine, that is his story and we share that story among the family. My next question is, What is your own story? Could this be yours?
"Patutkah kamu menyuruh manusia supaya berbuat kebaikan sedang kamu lupa akan diri sendiri, padahal kamu semua membaca kitab Allah, tidakkah kamu berfikir? AlBaqarah;44"

Kelab penembak klang

Kelab Penembak Bandar Di Raja Klang

1. Thank you KSRP for a good memory and experience.
2. The recoil was pretty hard, was not expecting that! How come it looks so easy in the movie?
3. Got no 12 out of 40 for individu category. Still proud of it! Hahahaha...